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The Morning After Pills That Gave Me Life

I’m walking to the gym after a night of perfect debauchery. It is the second day of the New Year and already I’m wondering how I will survive it.

I am happy and sad at the same time as the rays of the sun radiate my dark brown skin and parched gray tresses.

Yes, I am one of the lucky ones. My dark and lovely strands have been cursed by the jealous gods and converted to the very opposite of what beauty is supposed to mean.

I am depressed and lonely. I wish I could be holding hands with a god. A man who resembles a being far too superior for understanding.

I laid with one awhile back. He was a golden boy with soft blue eyes and hands that tingled and satisfied.

You can’t hide it no matter how hard you try. You are no longer the girl staring back at you after you leap out of bed in the dark of the morning.

You are someone else that has taken her place and you wish she would leave so you can get back to normal but there is no such thing anymore.

I need to exercise my mind and emotions. I have to grasp the handles of the elliptical as my eardrums pound with the escapades of Drake. I love him. I privately pretend that he wrote “Make Me Proud” after a chance meeting while I was on vacay with my girlfriends in SoBe.

I was lounging at the pool of The Fontainebleau and he approached me. I am laid out with my eyes facing the sky. The heat is priming my nice, wet, light-skinned and well-proportioned frame.

Yes. My skin is the color of a freshly brewed Cafe au lait and my dark, wet, and shiny wavy hair is splattered all over me.

This scenario has to work based on my assigned attributes because they can’t work with me now. It’s such a shame that I have to admit that I don’t feel adequate in the shell of my birth.

Yes, sometimes I imagine I’m a member of an African-American family with roots in South Carolina but a home base in Harlem. Her great-grandmother was a full blooded American Indian and those traits carried over in a way that makes my preferred ego the envy of every girl and the blissful nightmare of every guy.

Or she could be a dark-skinned chameleon with a sharp-witted Afro and bosoms that overflow at every turn under a fitted T-shirt.

I want to be any of those but I am not. What I am is a mid-lifer fast walking through a neighborhood where I was almost mugged who suddenly stumbles upon a colorful mess.

I stop and gaze with wonder. I’ve never seen this color combination before. It’s pretty and ugly at the same time.

I’m happy to see them all. They greet me with that level of familiarity — the coaxing and the prodding. The assurance that no matter how bad things get — there is always a way out. If you dare.

Is that why they are laying out with raw abandonment? Did someone decide against the lure of permanent escape by willing releasing them away from their disposition? Or perhaps she was forced to be rid of them after she was found in a distressing way.

She’s a she. I know she is.

But then a few of the pills were smashed with vengeance. This indicates that there was some rage and frustration behind this uncanny deposit.

There is enough around me to give me pause for thought. I can’t contemplate such things because that would mean that something is fundamentally wrong with me. But, there is something fundamentally wrong with me — so why not?

I take a picture with my phone. And then it hits me.

These pills were starting to pump blood in my veins. Suddenly my fading vision became clearer, my dull skin absorbed the nutrients from my revitalized pores.

This was supposed to happen.

I was meant to digest the significance of what was before me. The brutality of it had become my unfathomable savior. The attraction to it and the way the stark reality of the beginning and the end held me captive under the vibrant sun — provided more proof.

My internal fight ended with me collecting the image of rejected pills on the side of the road so I could instinctively prove who I am and who I always knew I was.

A survivor who lives to tell another tale. Mission accomplished.

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